It’s a disturbing image, to see fellow veterans struggle, in all aspects of their lives. Some have literally been burned by the VA process, while others are simply unaware that help is out there. You just need to know where to look.
VA Disability
I want to stress that the VA disability process is long and complicated. Find someone to assist that knows the process. This can be the VFW, AL, or other representative. If you’re still on Active Duty, make sure that what you plan on claiming is documented in your records. I’ve read so many times about those that didn’t get service connection or anything at all because it simply wasn’t there for them to see. We simply can’t blame the VA reviewers for this.
Next is to acquire the proper forms and documentation. If you already have a VA account, make use of ASK.GOV and ask questions or for the correct forms. I would still suggest working with someone. Ensure that you have you’re DD-214 and military medical records and submit the referenced documentation with each claim. This saves a considerable amount of time on your claim. They will do this for you but it will add time to processing.
Go to ALL of your appointments, or compensation and pension (C&P) exams on-time. It wouldn’t be the first time I’ve read on forums about disappointed vets that they showed up late, or not at all, and were denied the claim instead of the ability to reschedule. You can more than likely reschedule if you call to do so. Don’t make this more difficult than it already is. Following the exam, if you believe the outcome is unfavorable and additional support is needed for your condition, a NEXUS letter may be submitted alongside it. This is a letter from a private doctor explaining that specific condition.
Finally, ask your rep about secondary service connected disabilities. These are simply secondary conditions caused by the primary, such as pain leading to depression.
Assistance
Typically, each state has it’s own resources and programs devoted to veterans but education and outreach of these programs seems limited to those with an internet connection. Virginia, for instance, has tax exclusions, free state park passes, the DVS transition program, etc. The following site has an enormous amount of these programs listed and you’d have to search your specific state for these. https://myarmybenefits.us.army.mil/Benefit-Library/State/Territory-Benefits/Virginia#:~:text=Summary%20of%20Virginia%20Military%20and,hunting%20and%20fishing%20license%20privileges. But, there are other programs meant to equip vets with supplies or financial aid but must apply. The Veterans of Foreign Wars, which I am a lifetime member, has the Unmet Needs program, offering up to $1,500. Disabled American Veterans (DAV) is another well known charity that offers assistance and emergency grants. Wounded Warrior Project is probably the most well known to vets.
Suicide and Mental Health
I don’t feel that any veterans assistance blog is complete without stating to all my fellow brothers and sisters that I am here for you and stand beside you, whatever struggle you may be having. Do NOT feel bad for needing help as it’s ok to not be ok. The stigma of mental health needs to go so you can be healthy. If you’re not within the VA healthcare system, go to a local health department and they should have programs to assist you in finding care. You are not alone on this journey! I am not alone on this journey. It took a long time to convince myself this and I’ve struggled with some of it my entire life. Let’s find your peace.
GOD bless.